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If anything it felt more like 'normal' dating without the games; all cards were on the table.
Make no mistake, I appreciate the argument that when a relationship is based on something as superficial and potentially transient as money, there isn't much potential for longevity – but many of these women aren't looking for a life partner, they are looking for someone to buy them Louboutins and holidays in Barbados.
I wasn't really bothered about their reasons for using the site, if I'm honest, I was bothered about the fact I was sitting in The Ivy having a great time.
All were attractive, and older, but the advantage of using a sugar daddy dating site is that everyone has control over who they contact and meet, meaning that nobody is forced to do anything they don't want to.
I say good luck to the young women, enjoy it while you can because you won't be able to be a 'sugar baby' forever.
Established in 2005, Seeking Arrangement is a sugar baby website that has successfully brought sugar babies and sugar daddies together.
And who are the naysayers trying to defend the women for being taken advantage of (from what I can see these young women seem totally capable about making an adult decision about who they share their time and body with), or the men for having been taken advantage of (ditto)?
I also wonder if it's morals that make people criticise these sugar babies seeking arrangements, or jealousy – sure, it's not to everyone's taste, but if you're a woman who doesn't see the problem with a mutually beneficial relationship, then why should you be judged for it?Maybe it's the fact that 56% of the university signups on the Seeking Arrangement app come from middle and upper-middle class families, who shouldn't need/want to do it, or that, as a society, we still like to pretend that people don't seek anything other than true love from a relationship. University, a typical student on a three-year course outside of London might expect to graduate with around £35,000-£40,000 of student loans – not including living costs.So it's no wonder that young women are seeking an alternative to a minimum wage bar job to help reduce their debts.As one of the last social taboos, why is having a relationship based on a mutual understanding of benefits still so frowned upon?It's time we Feel free to date a man for his looks, his sense of humour or his connections, but date him for the lifestyle he can give you (because they're not rich men per se, sometimes just generous men) and you're hung, drawn and quartered.
We knew where we stood and enjoyed the 'relationship' for what it was.